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很理解你的感觉，但请换位思考一下： -- 小泡泡 - (193 Byte) 2006-10-20 周五, 15:43 (627 reads) |
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作者：换位思考 在 海归茶馆 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
但是是否真的身同感受朋友的痛楚了呢？把心贴到人家的心上去，去挨那一锤。。两锤。。三锤。。要是我大概也就再不会轻言坚强和扛住了，那么能做点什么呢，也许真的什么都做不了，就只好在边上的沙发上静静的坐着陪伴，什么也不说了。。。
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下面是电影 Good Will Hunting 中 Robin Williams (Sean) 和 Matt Damon (Will) 的一段对话, 没有任何意思，大家有兴趣可以重温一下，个人觉得挺精彩的。
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Sean: Thought about what you said to me the other day. About my painting.Oh. Stayed up half the night thinking about it. Something occurred to me. I fell into a deep, peaceful sleep and haven't thought about you since.
S: You know what occurred to me?
Will: No.
S: You're just a kid. You don't have the faintest idea what you're talking about.
W: Why, thank you.
S: It's all right. You've never been out of Boston.
W: Nope.
S: So if I asked you about art, you'd probably give me the skinny...on every art book ever written. Michelangelo? You know a lot about him. Life's work, political aspirations. Him and the pope. Sexual orientation. The whole works, right? I bet you can't tell me what it smells like in the Sistine Chapel. You never actually stood there and looked up at that beautiful ceiling. Seeing that.
S: If I ask you about women, you'll probably give me a syllabus of your personal favorites. You may have even been laid a few times. But you can't tell me what it feels like to wake up next to a woman...and feel truly happy.
S: You're a tough kid. I ask you about war, you'd probably throw Shakespeare at me, right? "Once more into the breach, dear friends." But you've never been near one. You've never held your best friend's head in your lap...and watch him gasp his last|breath lookin' to you for help.
S: If I asked you about love, you'd probably quote me a sonnet, but you've never looked at a woman and been totally vulnerable. Known someone that could level you with her eyes. Feelin' like God put an angel on Earth just for you, who could rescue you from the depths of hell. And you wouldn't know what it's like to be her angel, to have that love for her be there forever. Through anything. Through cancer. And you wouldn't know about sleepin' sittin' up in a hospital room...for two months, holding her hand, because the doctors could see in your eyes...that the terms "visiting hours" don't apply to you. You don't know about real loss, 'cause that only occurs when you love something more than you love yourself. I doubt you've ever dared to love anybody that much.
S: I look at you. I don't see an intelligent, confident man. I see a cocky, scared shitless kid. But you're a genius, Will. No one denies that. No one could possibly understand|the depths of you. But you presume to know everything about me because you saw a painting of mine. You ripped my fuckin' life apart.
S: You're an orphan, right? Do you think I'd know the first thing about how hard your life has been--how you feel, who you are-- because I read Oliver Twist? Does that encapsulate you?
S: Personally, I don't give a shit|about all that, because-- You know what? I can't learn anything from you...I can't read in some fuckin' book. Unless you wanna talk about you, who you are. And I'm fascinated. I'm in. But you don't wanna do that, do you, sport? You're terrified of what you might say.
S: Your move, chief.
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