i especially agree with this one
女人在一定程度上是“人尽可夫”的。你爱这个人,其实爱的是这个类型的人。在其它合适的时间地点,你遇到这个类型其他的人,你还是会爱的。
and i think its the same for men, but of course, physical attractions are more or less on the same level for different "couterparty"
but one thing i can't agree is the seperation of 肉体出轨 and 肉体出轨
棒棒随意乱插 is not as easy as women would think, it takes some planning and sweet talking and money spending and mood setting and etc, a man would have ample time to change his mind if the image of wife or gf ever crosses his mind..
people 发现爱人肉体出轨也可以无所谓 must have had good understanding of the whole issue or first hand experience.....
i remember the solution of my gf is to demand full fledged action after any guys night out. and it works, I always have to watch my inventory level and keep in mind the image of her shockingly finds out it really low....