1)No.
2)不要太多考验您的老哈，by leaving him alone near "盘丝洞" too long. 多数人，不管男女，是经不起阵阵的考验的。 xxx 是我档久经考验的。。。只有在追悼会上听得到。
有道是，常在河边走，哪有不湿鞋？
3)You don't allow your husband to explore.... You either encourage him or not encourage him to.... Allow is a wrong choice of words here; it may hurt your husband's 自尊。Anyway, there are many routers/accesses towards career building inside the USA, right? At least he will be near home assuming you live in the States. Good luck to you and your family!
多数人，不管男女，是经不起阵阵的考验的。 
xxx 是我档久经考验的。。。只有在追悼会上听得到。
