I feel fortunate I am more and more interested in GIVING as I become older and older. On the other hand, I am surprised after so many girls, I can still catch some chemistry with a good perentage of girls (while I feel alomost nothing elsewhere in China).
In Chongqing, no exaggeration, u have girls catching ur eyes every 30 seconds when walking on most streets while u do the same once a day elsewhere in China. I know it sounds unbelievable, but it came from my recent trips to Beijing and Shenzhen (while HK has many classy girls at Central, not JianShaZui)
