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波儿的波-中西联姻到底怎么样-谁没有个洋老公-人们为何鄙视嫁鬼子? -- 波儿 - (1373 Byte) 2005-10-14 周五, 07:42 (2130 reads) |
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作者：mich 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
I am currently dating a white girl, 15 years younger, red head. Over the years, I've dated women of various races. One thing I've noticed is that American women, while quite open when it comes to sex, are really sweet and pure. They either like/love you or not, without much agenda. Other other hand, Chinese women are really complicated and will not let feelings to dictate their dating behaviors. I've met women who wrote to ask if I was a citizen so she would not "waste time". I also dated on lady who used to be an anchor at a local TV station in Chengdu. One days she left town and after a week called to tell me that she just married a guy with citizenship, whom she absolutely had no feelings for.
Having said these, I feel bad about my young girlfriend because I know I am not going to marry her as she has wished. I just feel that all the cultural and experiencial differences are too much to overcome. I totally understand the exotic feeling one may have towards opposite sex of difference race. Until today I still find young American girls very attractive. however, it's hard to imagine how they can fully appreciate you as a person beyond the looks and the exoticism. Marriage of the same race is already very hard to handle, not to mention interracial. I am not saying it will never work, but for me, it's pretty obvious.
As for those women who brag, it is quite understandable. Maybe we as audience should just care less. Aren't our own relationship mindful enough?
作者：mich 在 海归酒吧 发贴, 来自【海归网】 http://www.haiguinet.com
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