I assume you’re a not gorgeous looking guy. This is an only fair game using money to get fxxk in return, and using feeling to get feeling in return. You’re talking about conquest, but you’re not up to the challenges. After physical attraction and personal charm fail, even lies can’t save you. It’s maybe a wise choice for you to go back to China. Girls in China are more naïve in this way. they don’t see, or don’t want to admit how pathetic some our men are.